Summary
- There are three main types of adoption: open, semi-open, and closed.
- In an open adoption, birth parents and adoptive parents have an ongoing relationship that can include visits and communication.
- Semi-open adoptions allow for some communication but typically not in-person visits.
- Closed adoptions involve no contact between birth parents and adoptive parents after the adoption is finalized.
- To maintain a relationship with a child after adoption, working with a licensed agency is essential. Adoption by Shepherd Care is experienced in open and semi-open adoptions and to communicate desires with the adoptive family.
If you are considering adoption for your child it’s natural to wonder what the future holds. One of the most common questions is, “If I put my child up for adoption, can I see them later?” The answer is not simple, as it can vary depending on several factors. In this article, we will explore the different types of adoption. We will also look at the options available to birth parents who wish to maintain a relationship with their child after the adoption is finalized.
Types of Adoption
Before we dive into the details, it’s important to understand the different types of adoption. There are three main types of adoption: open, semi-open, and closed.
Open Adoption
In an open adoption, the birth parents and adoptive parents have an ongoing relationship. This includes communication and possibly even visits to see the child. The level of openness can vary depending on the preferences of both parties. Sometimes, birth parents may be involved in important events in the child’s life, such as birthdays or graduations.
Semi-Open Adoption
A semi-open adoption allows for some communication between the birth parents and adoptive parents, but rarely includes in-person visits. A third party, such as a licensed adoption agency, may facilitate communication.
Closed Adoption
In a closed adoption, there is no contact between the birth parents and adoptive parents after the adoption is finalized. This type of adoption was more common in the past, but is becoming less common as open and semi-open adoptions become more popular.
Maintaining a Relationship with Your Child
If you are considering planning an adoption and wish to maintain a relationship with your child after the adoption is finalized, it’s important to work with a licensed adoption agency experienced in open and semi-open adoptions. Your adoption professional can help you explore your options and create a plan that meets your needs and preferences.
It’s also important to communicate your desires with the adoptive family. If you wish to have ongoing contact with your child, discuss this with the adoptive parents before committing to that family. This can help ensure that everyone is on the same page and that expectations are clear. Your caseworker will help you with this.
Wrapping things up
The answer to the question, “If I put my child up for adoption, can I see them later?” is not simple. The type of adoption and the laws in your state can impact your ability to maintain a relationship with your child after the adoption is finalized. However, it is possible with the help of a licensed adoption agency and clear communication with the adoptive family. A post-adoption contact agreement that meets your needs and preferences can be created. At the end of the day, the most important thing is to make the decision that is best for you and your child.
